Neo, a Nigerian man, expressed his view that a woman who is not a virgin should reconsider wearing a white wedding gown on her big day, as white symbolizes purity.
He shared this perspective on Saturday, October 14, during a discussion about weddings, and also commented that a non-virgin shouldn’t expect an extravagant wedding.
“A woman who you did not meet and marry as a virgin has no business using a white wedding gown on the wedding day. White Signifies purity, so a non-virgin has no business wearing a white wedding gown,” he said.
“Your wedding should never cost more than 20% of your annual income. If you make 150k monthly, that’s N1.8m annually. Your wedding should not cost more than 360k.
“Any woman who will not align with your budget for a wedding has no business being your wife in the first place. 3b)A woman who you did not meet as a virgin is not even in any position to demand an expensive wedding
“Insanity is having a dream wedding that you wouldn’t be funding or contributing a dime to. As a man, it is not your duty to fund the teenage wedding imaginations (dreams) of women
“Irrespective of all the billions you spend on your wedding day, you will not satisfy all your guests, and it will not have any bearing whatsoever on the success of your marriage.
“More than 70% of women are much more interested in the wedding than they are the marriage
“Stop allowing the media and society to brainwash you into believing the wedding is all about the bride. The wedding won’t hold if the groom is not in attendance. It’s not her day anything, it’s a day for both the groom and the bride,”
